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Enlisted Housing Norfolk: Best Areas for Couples

Enlisted housing Norfolk: start here

Enlisted housing Norfolk is a topic I get asked about a lot, and for good reason. When my wife and I PCS’d (permanent change of station) to Norfolk, we had no idea where to start. We’d heard the horror stories about traffic and the tunnel backups, but we didn’t fully understand the geography until we got there. This guide is what I wish someone had handed me before we made the move.

First, a quick reality check: Norfolk is home to the largest naval base in the world, so you’re not alone in this search. Thousands of sailors and their families live in the area, and they’ve figured out the best spots. You will too, if you plan ahead and know what to look for.

On-base vs. off-base: the trade-offs

When you’re looking at enlisted housing Norfolk, the first big decision is whether to live on base or off. On-base housing in Norfolk is managed by a private company under the Navy’s Public-Private Venture (PPV) program, not by the Navy itself. That means you apply through a housing office, and the waitlist can be long for certain ranks and floor plans.

The pros of on-base living are obvious: no commute, no bridge or tunnel, and a built-in community of other military families. But the housing can feel dated, and you’re subject to the rules of the housing company, which sometimes means less flexibility. Off-base gives you more choices, but you have to factor in commute times and the cost of living.

My advice? Get on the base housing waitlist early, even if you think you’ll go off-base. You can always decline when your name comes up, but if you change your mind, you don’t want to be at the bottom of the list. The waitlist for some neighborhoods can be months, so the sooner you apply, the better.

First E-2D Hawkeye with aerial refueling capability to join the fleet
First E-2D Hawkeye with aerial refueling capability to join the fleet (Photo: Nikita Custer / U.S. Navy, DVIDS)

VA Beach: the popular choice

When sailors talk about where to live off-base, Virginia Beach is usually the first name that comes up. It’s a big city with a lot of options, from oceanfront condos to quiet suburban neighborhoods. Many of the enlisted folks I served with chose VA Beach because it felt more like a ‘normal’ community, with good schools and plenty of amenities.

The catch is the commute. If you live in VA Beach and work at Naval Station Norfolk, you’ll likely cross the Hampton Roads Bridge-Tunnel (HRBT) or the Monitor-Merrimac Memorial Bridge-Tunnel (MMBT). During rush hour, those tunnels can back up for miles. I’ve sat in that traffic more times than I care to count, and it’s not something you want to do every day if you can avoid it.

If you do choose VA Beach, look for neighborhoods closer to the base, like the areas near the Naval Air Station Oceana or along the Interstate 264 corridor. The farther east you go, the worse the commute gets, so keep that in mind.

NECC Takes Polar Plunge for Special Olympics
NECC Takes Polar Plunge for Special Olympics (Photo: Michael Hinchcliffe / U.S. Navy, DVIDS)

Ghent: for those who want city life

If you and your spouse prefer a more urban vibe, Ghent in Norfolk is worth a look. It’s a historic district with tree-lined streets, brick row houses, and a walkable main drag full of coffee shops and restaurants. It’s a different feel from the sprawl of VA Beach, and it’s much closer to the base—no tunnels required.

The trade-off is that Ghent can be pricier for the space you get, and parking can be a pain. But if you’re a couple without kids, or you want to be able to walk to dinner, it’s a great option. I had a shipmate who lived in Ghent for years and loved it, even though his commute was a straight shot down Hampton Boulevard.

Safety is something to consider in any city neighborhood. Ghent is generally safe, but like any urban area, it has pockets that are better than others. Do your homework—check crime maps and talk to locals before you sign a lease.

Traffic and tunnels: the big gotcha

I can’t stress this enough: avoid a commute that requires crossing a bridge or tunnel if you can. The HRBT and MMBT are notorious for congestion, and it only takes one accident to turn a 20-minute drive into an hour and a half. When I was stationed there, I knew sailors who lived on the Peninsula (the other side of the water) and regretted it every single day.

If you’re looking at a map and see water between your potential home and the base, think hard about whether that’s a commute you can handle. The locals will tell you the same thing: stay on the same side of the water as the base.

Other neighborhoods to consider

Beyond VA Beach and Ghent, there are other areas worth a look. Ocean View in Norfolk is closer to the Bay and has some affordable options, though it’s a mixed bag in terms of safety. Downtown Norfolk has modern apartments, but they can be pricey. And if you’re willing to live a bit farther out, Chesapeake offers more space for your money, but again, watch the commute.

The best approach is to make a list of what matters most to you—commute time, cost, schools, nightlife—and rank the neighborhoods against that list. Talk to your sponsor or other sailors in your command; they’ll have the most current gouge (insider tips) on what’s good and what to avoid.

Fall Portrait
Fall Portrait (Photo: Nikita Custer / U.S. Navy, DVIDS)

Final thoughts

Finding the right place to live near Naval Station Norfolk takes some legwork, but it’s worth it. Start your housing search early, get on that waitlist, and don’t underestimate the traffic. If you do, you’ll find a spot that works for you and your spouse.

For more guidance on the whole Navy journey, from OCS to your first duty station, check out the Navy OCS Journey. And remember, the military community is a small world—someone you know has been where you are. Don’t be afraid to ask for advice.

You’ve got this. Fair winds and following seas.